Hello Anton. Thanks for your question. The Forum can be a helpful place to find an Ally. I am going to include a few links below. Two are for articles on our site that walk you through what to look for in an Ally and how best to find one. The third link is for a secular community of people who are all trying to quit their pornography addiction together and stay clean. Their Community Forums might be very helpful for you as there are a lot more folks there than are on this forum and they tend to be very supportive of one another.
I hope these links are helpful for you. Let us know if you have any further questions.