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Hi there, so finally resubscribed to this w/ hopes of this making a difference. Now what I've discovered was the roadblock that stumbled me last time leading to me unsubscribing. Now I'm wondering if anyone here has any input regarding this. So my stumbling block last time was, I had to block practically all sites due to me seeking & discovering lustful imagery/videography in each of these this included social media, Youtube, practically all shopping sites & even the windows store. Another part to this is the sites I was blocking was really affecting my work & family's life. & the windows store I cant block nor deactivate according to Microsoft. So Im real stuck & not sure how to overcome this this time. What advice is there out there. & I have a unaccountable accountability partner so that doesnt help much either. They've been near impossible to work w/ on this. All input appreciated.

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Hi Dan. 

Welcome back and thanks for your question. I'm sorry to hear about those ongoing struggles. I will say that while I am happy to help in any way that I can please be aware we are not counselors and are not qualified to give any kind of professional advice. That being said it sounds like you are really struggling with any kind of access to the internet. Think of Covenant Eyes as a a tool in your toolbelt - ideally one of several. You also say that you have an unaccountable accountability partner that doesn't help much. I would strongly encourage you to find a new Ally - perhaps several. You may also want to look into counseling services to help you on this journey as well.

Basically, it sounds like you are trying to do this largely on your own when what you really need is a robust support network to help you. I'm going to include a number of links below to helpful blogposts, support networks, and even a counseling referral. Feel free to utilize any of them if they seem helpful. 

Helpful Blog Posts 

Free Downloadable Ebooks

Support Groups

Counseling and Coaching Services

Email Challenges

Online Porn Detox Programs


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I hope some of this proves helpful for you Dan. Let us know if there is anything else we can do for you sir. 

Thank you and have a great day.